How to Attract a Woman - Become Uncomfortable Or Become Friends

How to attract a woman is something that many men do not understand.

Do you always end up in the "friends zone". You can talk to women, you can have a good time with women, they seem to enjoy being around you too, but if you ever work up the courage to ask for something more all you get is "let's just be friends", the dreaded death-knell that no man ever wants to hear!

Let's be honest here, you do NOT want to be friends with a woman you want to date. Being her friend will only bring needless frustration and torment to your life. If a woman says this to you, then do yourself (and her) a favor and tell her politely that you are not interested in being her friend, click your heels and walk away.

Unfortunately many men will accept her offer, thinking they still have a chance.

Let's face it. Working up the courage to ask a woman for a romantic relationship is hard. Many of us would rather settle into a comfortable friendship with a woman before pushing for something more.

Unfortunately, it just doesn't work this way.

When you have established yourself in the role of "friend", she becomes accustomed to seeing you that way - as nothing more than a friend. For a woman, once the type of relationship is established in her mind, it usually stays that way... for ever!

Any attempt to escalate an established friendship into a romantic and sexual relationship is usually futile, embarrassing and leaves behind a bunch of weird emotions.

What you MUST understand is simply...

ONCE YOU ARE ESTABLISHED AS A FRIEND IN THE MIND OF A WOMAN, THERE IS NO GOING BACK

When you first meet a woman, you have two simple choices: become her friend or become her lover. If you choose the friend route you can NEVER be her lover. It works the other way too, once you become her lover you can never become a platonic friend again either.

What many men don't understand is that becoming comfortably established as a "friend" at the start of a relationship with a woman, rules out any future chance of romance.

Why is this? You ask. Why would she not want me to spare her all those unpleasant and awkward emotions?

What it comes down to is the sexual tension that is natural between attractive men and women. Establishing a "friends only" relationship with a women is unnatural and by doing so there is an unspoken agreement to control the passion from the start. This immediately kills off all future thought of passion for her. You are viewed akin to a brother.

Women are emotional creatures first and foremost. They actually ENJOY and NEED those emotions, the way we need... say sport or sex. Yes it's completely insane to logically thinking guys like us that anyone would actually enjoy feeling overwhelming and awkward emotions... Not for a woman.

If you are seeking a romantic and sexual relationship with a woman, you must learn to "man up" and embrace the powerful turmoil of emotion that characterizes the early stages of a romantic relationship. This is crucial.

Real men face up to what they have to do in order to get what they want. Wimps seek comfort, avoid conflict and settle for less than they want. An attractive women wants a MAN who can face up to the conflict of romance, not a passive WIMP who avoids it.

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