She showed up in your life out of no where. She's perfect. She has no interest, zero, in you when she looks your way. What do you do now? How to get a girl to like you? Firstly if you're looking for long term commitment go buy a book, I don't have time to help you here.
Now that those losers have left us, look in the mirror. No, you don't have to be the stud movie star, and let's face it, you're not. That's ok. What we're talking is don't turn her off first thing with a hair cut you gave yourself and jeans your dog slept on last night. Wash up, women love clean. Have a hip young hair dresser that knows the current style take care of you. Tell her why you want the cut. Hair dressers eat this right up. He/She'll take care of you.
Then go to a clothing store. What store? Start with somewhere that has people working that don't have store bibs on. Ask them to help you. They're bored stiff, they'd love to, gets them out of having to work.
Now you look good, you smell good too hopefully. If not go to the cosmetic counter in the clothing store, where women that work behind the counter will be very willing to flirt with you. No you aren't that interesting suddenly, they work on commission, moron.
Now you look as passable as we can manage in a short time. Now it gets challenging. Best advice, be honest, but have some class. Always, always keep in mind any action you take stays with people. More importantly, you are defining who you are. That's pretty mind blowing so don't think on it too long.
If you don't like someone, if it's impossible because she's repulsive as a human being, call a halt to it. Break away clean. If it need be said tell her straight up, in as nice a way possible, it's not there for me. I'm not feeling any connection. Sorry.
If you are having a good time, and you can see she is not, tactfully confront it. Perhaps you can get by it. If you can't, offer her a way out. She may not be the one, but may think you're right for her cousin or best friend. She may be the boss at the next job you apply for.
You are not static as a human being, as boring as you may think you are. Dating should be a process of discovery. What you're doing is learning from other people, things about yourself. Dating is finding yourself, so when the woman of perfection comes to you, you're ready to meet her, interact with her, know how to read her moods and signals and end up with the woman you love.
If you want to discover the secrets of "magnetically" attracting women to you without ever chasing them down and without ever having to approach them, visit my site at Become An Alpha MaleNow that those losers have left us, look in the mirror. No, you don't have to be the stud movie star, and let's face it, you're not. That's ok. What we're talking is don't turn her off first thing with a hair cut you gave yourself and jeans your dog slept on last night. Wash up, women love clean. Have a hip young hair dresser that knows the current style take care of you. Tell her why you want the cut. Hair dressers eat this right up. He/She'll take care of you.
Then go to a clothing store. What store? Start with somewhere that has people working that don't have store bibs on. Ask them to help you. They're bored stiff, they'd love to, gets them out of having to work.
Now you look good, you smell good too hopefully. If not go to the cosmetic counter in the clothing store, where women that work behind the counter will be very willing to flirt with you. No you aren't that interesting suddenly, they work on commission, moron.
Now you look as passable as we can manage in a short time. Now it gets challenging. Best advice, be honest, but have some class. Always, always keep in mind any action you take stays with people. More importantly, you are defining who you are. That's pretty mind blowing so don't think on it too long.
If you don't like someone, if it's impossible because she's repulsive as a human being, call a halt to it. Break away clean. If it need be said tell her straight up, in as nice a way possible, it's not there for me. I'm not feeling any connection. Sorry.
If you are having a good time, and you can see she is not, tactfully confront it. Perhaps you can get by it. If you can't, offer her a way out. She may not be the one, but may think you're right for her cousin or best friend. She may be the boss at the next job you apply for.
You are not static as a human being, as boring as you may think you are. Dating should be a process of discovery. What you're doing is learning from other people, things about yourself. Dating is finding yourself, so when the woman of perfection comes to you, you're ready to meet her, interact with her, know how to read her moods and signals and end up with the woman you love.
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